Chapter 11 - What We Can Do During Pregnancy

Now, as you all know that GARBH SANSKAR is all about keeping yourself in a good state emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually for the sake of your growing baby. And for that, what we should do during pregnancy is a question now.  Here is the answer - We can do many things for making pregnancy happier, healthy and smooth.

Let’s start with our thoughts.

BE POSITIVE

Each and every human have good and bad days, ups and downs in their life. But who can be remaining stable in that situation are called genius. All game is of thought only who can think positive will overcome badly of the bad situation and who cannot will lose everything. So try to remain positive in pregnancy. In this phase your hormones makes you more emotional than usual so if you want to stress free throughout, than only you can help yourself by thinking good. Do the work more you like the more this can help you to get busy and feed your mind with pleasure.

 Just decide to replace every negative thought that enter in your mind with positive thought. Every single thought, doesn’t matter what it is. Whether it’s about money, relationship, appearance, self-esteem, or pregnancy. Try to turn every single negative thought into positive. Insted of saying ‘’I m too weak to handle the pain, say ‘’I am strong and capable to overcome anyhow.’’

FOLLOW YOUR HOBBY

Don’t force yourself to do anything which you don’t like. Remember that you are passing your feelings to your baby. So any activities you are doing by force and you don’t like, make a negative impression on your baby.

If it is reading than read the educational books or other books which gives you more knowledge or some religious books. Whatever you read with the full interest will pass on to the child weather it is spiritual, motivational, self help, tourism, cooking, business, fairy tales, romance, poetry or life stories. You can choose any subject of your interest from vast subjects. The only thing is that it should uplift your knowledge.

You can watch comedy movies having happy endings. Watch motivational movies to change your mood. Watch Movie - “THE SECREAT”, which is based upon effect of thoughts on our life.

Listen beautiful songs (avoid sad songs); go for photography and cooking and any other thing which gives you good feeling, joy, enhance your mood in positive way.

  

 MUSIC

Baby can hear the sounds you are listening and also responds to the sound. Researches say that music stimulates fetal development, its brain development and sense of hearing and it can be your stress buster. So, Listening music will benefit you and the baby as well.

Mozart, Bach Music, Soothing Tunes, Sanskrit Shloka, Sitar Tunes, Violin Tunes and Ragas will help your baby’s mental development. Even prenatal listening may give positive result and gives same benefits like prenatal consumption of omega-3 fatty acid.

Music benefits:-

Enhance baby’s attention span
Improves sleep pattern

Increases cognitive development

Sharper language skill

Fact is there may be too many variables to short out the impact of songs and sound including the pitch and tone of voices, dialogue of daily life. Music can affect you’re your baby in a certain way. Some Expert’s studies say there is correlation between music and smarter babies. Learning piano during pregnancy may support child’s spatial reasoning and math’s skills. Researchers, however, do indicate that unborn babies do respond to various rhythmic qualities of music, based on fetal breathing patterns that conform to musical rhythm suggesting music does have a sympathetic effect. Baby can remember that songs and tunes you listen during pregnancy and they react to that tune after birth. Pregnancy shlokas in traditional ragas are good for start. Listening Sanskrit  shloka and songs will sharpen baby’s language skill and pronunciation after birth

Music may make your baby smarter, more creative and more sociable.

Chapter 10 - Growth of Baby in Womb

MONTH 1:-

Baby’s sex, eye, hair colour, facial features, height and other inherited parameters are determined and the baby’s size is of approximately 2mm in the first month.

MONTH 2:-

A tiny hears begins to be at around end of first month. Facial, eye muscles, eyelids, fingerprints also begin to develop. Baby now grows inside a sac formed by a thin membrane. over the next few months, this sac gets filled with warm fluid in which baby floats. Baby’s lungs start getting formed and the brain, spinal cord, basic facial features, arms, legs stars to grow.

MONTH:-3

Finger and toe nails appear, head is made up to half of its length. Small amount of hair begin to cover baby’s body. By the end of this month, male reproductive glands in boys and ovaries in girls are formed. But no visible differences in external sex organs are identifiable so far. By end of this month (first trimester), the baby is about 2.5 inches (6 cm) long and weight is about 30gms.

MONTH:-4

By the end of this month, external sex organs become distinctly either male or female. Growth of the baby’s head slows down compared to the rest of body. Baby grows to about 5 inches (12cm) and weight is about 80gms.

MONTH:-5

Halfway milestone through the pregnancy is reached in this month and baby’s brain now grows rapidly. Baby moves inside the sac filled with amniotic fluid. Baby’s kidney start producing urine (which forms most of the fluid in sac) and is not harmful to the baby. Baby has more human appearance now and may suck his thumb if it floats up to his mouth. The baby grows to about 7 inches (18cm) and weight about 250gms.

MONTH:-6

From now on, the baby gains weight relatively more as compared to growing in length. Different organs within the body mature and bones start becoming stronger. Baby’s heart beat is now strong enough to you to clearly hear with a stethoscope. A baby’s heart beats at the rate of about 120 to 150 times a minute and one may feel the baby’s moves. Baby is about 10 inches (25cm) in length and weighs about 500gms.

MONTH:-7

From this month onward, baby grows about 25 to 30 grams daily. Baby’s eye begins to open a bit, an eyelash grows and it may react to strong light now. Baby’s bone marrow is now in full control to produce blood. Baby grows about 14 inches (35cm in length) and weighs about 1.1 kg.

MONTH:-8

Baby’s hearing capability is fully developed by now and baby reacts by loud sound. Baby is now able to hear outside voices too.

Baby gets immunity as antibodies from mother‘s blood pass in to baby’s blood. Baby grows to about 17 inches (43cm) and weighs about 1.8 kg.

MONTH:-9

Baby grows to its full size by now and growth slows down now. Baby’s finger nails are quite long but toe nails are not yet fully developed. Baby is about 20 inches (50cm) in length and weighs about 2.75kg.

Chapter 9 - Mythogical Stories Favouring Garbh Sanskar

There are many Mythogical Stories that favors’ Garbh Sanskar in our history.

ARJUN

Before having Arjun as their child, mother Kunti and father Pandu observed strict celibacy for one full year and also performed devotional service to the lord Krishna and as a result they got a devoted and great personality as their son ; ARJUN.

VAMAN DEV

Vaman Dev’s mother Aditi performed PAYO Varta austerity having only milk as a food / source of energy for 12 days and intensely serving to the devotees and to the lord. And Mune Kayshyapa also have performed austerities for many years observing celibacy as a result they got Vaman Dev as their child.

But Aditi became lusty and forced Muni Kashyap to have conception in improper time without observing any austerities and as a result, they got demons like Hiranakashipu and Hiranyaksh as their children.

ABHIMANYU

This story of Mahabharata is very known almost too all Indian. Abhimanyu was son of Arjun and Subhadra. He is one of greatest warier in Mahabharata and a legendary figure. His education began while he was in his mother’s womb. He overheard Arjuna telling Subhadra the secrets of how to enter, exit, and destroy various battle formations. Of these, it is of note, that he only heard how to enter (but not exit or destroy) the secret of the chakravyuh formation as Subhadra fell asleep and thus Arjuna didn’t complete his explanation. Abhimanyu inherited both courage and fighting ability from his father. Abhumanyu participated in the Mahabharta war when he was sixteen year old. In absence of Krishna and Arjun, Ahimanyu was obliged to break through the cakravyuh, the wheel-formation of the kaurva army, which he did and became the biggest warrior of his century and for the years to come. Abhimanyu possessed incomparable courage, valor and fighting ability. He was considered to be a warrior equal or perhaps superior to his father (Arjuna) owing to his prodigious feats.

PRAHLAD

Prahlad was son of demon’s king Hiranakyashipu and Kayadhu. Hiranyakashipu didn’t like any kind of spiritual inclination but mother Kayadhu is quite religious. Prahlad while being in his mother’s womb got to hear Narada’s chants as a result of which, he was devoted towards Lord Vishnu.

HANUMAN

Hanuman was born to the Vanaras. His mother Anjana and Father Kesari prayed Shiva for a child. Anjana performed intense prayers lasting 12 long years to Shiva to get a child. And this is why Hanuman was so powerful and devoted to Rama so much.

RAMA

In RAMAYANA, it is stated that King Dasharatha of Ayodhya performed the ritual called Putrakamesthi Yagna in order to have children. As a result, he received some sacred pudding to be shared by his three wives, leading to the births of Rama, Lakshmana, Bharata and Satrughna.

ASTHAVAKRA

In Chadogya Upanishad, it is mentioned that in Rishi Uddalaka’s vedshala, there was a best disciples of him was Kahola. Uddalaka was so pleased with him that he had his daughter Sujata married to him. When Sujata got pregnant, she had the desire of wanting her child to imbibe spirituality and intelligence. She began to sit in the classes taught by Uddalaka and Kahola, listening to their chanting of Vedic Mantras. One day, as Kahola was reciting the Vedas within the hearing distance of the child growing in the womb. The embryo was aware of the correct pronunciation of every syllable since his mother used to attend classes with rapt attention. The embryo heard the recitation but whenever Kahola pronounced a syllable wrong, it squirmed in distress. The embryo informed Kahola that he had pronounced the syllable wrongly as indicated by the child in the womb. This happened on eight occasions. Kahola perceived this as arrogance on the part of something, yet to manifest itself in the word. He cursed the fetus with eight deformities of the body. when the baby was born, it was crooked in eight places-two feet, the two knees, the two hands, the chest and the head and so he was names as Asthavakra means one having eight bends but because he hear Vedas in womb and having a great knowledge of Vedas he instructed king Janaka about the self. This teaching forms the content of as the ASTHAVAKRA GITA or ASTHVAKRA SAMHITA.

In India, there was belief  in ancient time that when expectant mothers expose themselves to spiritual teaching, the child in the womb hears it and gathers that knowledge and become genius in that spiritual area after birth. Nowadays our scientist also believes that child’s brain working is a receptor while in embryo and can remember whatever is given for whole of his / her life.

Chapter 8 - Garbhadhan Sanskara in Srimad Bhagvatam

All Sansakaras in our Vedic scriptures are Important, but more importance is given to Vivah Sanskar and Garbhadhan Sanskar. Here are some of the shlokas of “BHAGVATAM” and “Bhagvad Gita” in reference to garbhadhan sanskar.

The protection of children gives the human form of life its best chance to prepare the way of liberty from material bondage. Such protection of child begins from the very day of begetting a child by the purificatory process of garbhadhan sanskar the beginning of pure life. (SRIMAD BHAGVATAM - 1:8:5-Purport)

The culture of human being begins when the father invests his semen in the womb of the mother. According to his status of work, a living entity is placed in a particular father’s semen, and because VIDUR was not an ordinary living entity, he was given a chance to be born from the semen of Vyasa Muni. The birth of human being is a great science and therefore reformation of the act of impregnation according to the Vedic ritual called GARBHADHAN SANSKAR is very important for generating good population. (SRIMAD BHAGVATAM- 3:5:19- Purport)

The living entity takes shelter within the semen of a father, which is injected into the womb of a mother and with the help of the mother’s emulsified ovum, the living entity grows a particular type of body. It is to be concluded that while conceiving a child, one’s mind must be very sober and devotional. For this purpose, Grabhadhan Sanskar is recommended in the Vedic scriptures. If the mind of the father is not sober, the semen discharged will not be good. (SRIMAD BHAGVATAM-3:16:35-Purport)

It follows that any father and mother should also be careful while begetting children. The mental conditions of a child depend upon the mental status of his parents at the time he conceived. According to Vedic system, therefore, the Garbhadhan Sanskar is observed. Before getting a child, one has to sanctify his perplexed mind. when the parents engage their minds in the lotus feet of lord and in such a state the child born, naturally good devotee child come; when the society is full of such good population, there is no trouble from demonic mentalities.(SRIMAD BHAGVATAM-3:20:28-purpot)

Too much salt, chilly, onion and similar food is forbidden for the pregnant mother to be careful because the child’s body is too delicate and new for him to tolerate such pungent food. Restriction and precaution to be taken by the pregnant woman, as enunciated in the smriti scriptures of Vedic literature how much care is taken to be getting a nice child in society. The Garbhadhan ceremony before sexual intercourse is compulsory for the person in higher grades of society, and it is very scientific (SRIMAD BHAGVATAM-3:31:5-Purport)

The purity of hereditary succession is called amogha-virya. The pious seminal succession in the twice-born families of the Brahman as and ksatriya especially, as well as in families of Vaisya also, must be kept very pure by the observation of the purificatory processes beginning with Garbhadhan Sanskara, which is observed before conceiving the child. unless this purificatory process is strictly observed, especially by the brahmnas, the family descendants become impure, and gradually sinful activities become visible in family.(SRIMAD BHAGVATAM-4:14:42-Purport)

Children begotten under the rules and regulation of the scriptures generally become as good as father and mother, but children born illegitimately mainly become varnasankar. The varnasankar population is irresponsible to the family, community and even to themselves. Formerly the varnasankar population was checked by the observation of the reformatory method called Grabhadhan Sanskara. (SRIMAD BHAGVATAM-4:27:7-Purport)

According to Vedic system, therefore, before a child is conceived, the Garbhdhan Sanskar is performed. This ceremony molds the mentality of the father in such a way that when he plants his seed in the womb of his wife, he will beget a child whose mind will be completely saturated with a devotional attitude. (SRIMAD BHAGVATAM-5:2:2- Purport)

As stated in Bhagvad Gita (7.11) dharmaviruddho bhutesu kamosmi; sex not contrary to religious principles is a representation of the supreme lord. People should be educated in how to give birth to good children through sanskaras, beginning with the Garbhdhan sansakar. (SRIMAD BHAGVATAM-10:3:33-purpot)

In Vedic civilization, childbirth or pregnancy is never regarded as a burden; rather it is a cause of jubilation and therefore before the birth of child there is Grbhadhan ceremony is celebrated. (SRIMAD BHAGVATAM- 10:7:4 –Purport)